Reflection and Practice: Defining the Middle
When you think about the middle, what comes to mind. I want to encourage you to take a block of time, maybe 20-30 minutes, and think about what the middle looks like for you. There are a couple of ways to envision that.
A simple way is to take a piece of paper and fold it in thirds horizontally (in landscape). Then in the left or right column put your beliefs. Then, in the center column, what are the things you can bring to the middle. Are there things that can’t cross the line into the middle? Are there beliefs you hold where there’s no room for negotiation? Try to clarify what it means to enter that middle space.
Another visual might be to draw a table and some chairs. What do you bring with you on the chair next to you? In Interfaith spaces I often say: I have no problem bringing Jesus with me to the table. He can handle it. So, if you are sitting at a table in the middle, what comes with you that either exists as itself or is something you’re willing to modify?
Spending a little time thinking about the middle can help us be prepared for those discussions. Examining our own views can help us see how we’re changing and can help us clarify why we believe what we believe. Learning how to speak into the middle is something we can all work on to try and make a difference in our world.
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